I remember this story from about seven years ago that taught me the importance of giving thanks for the small things everyday. It was really late and my four-year old little boy Will was still awake. I took him upstairs to brush his teeth and for him to use the bathroom before bed. While he was peeing, he exclaimed, “This is the best day ever! Right dad?”
His question caught me off guard.
While I put the toothpaste on his toothbrush, in that split-second, I had to think about it. I was exhausted from an incredibly long day. It wasn’t just a long day at work, we had one kid who cheered at a basketball game and another kid who had a swim meet in another town. My wife and I split events that night. I went to the one out of town. I was beat. Is this really the greatest day ever? I thought. If I say yes, do I even believe that? If I say no, what will he think?
As I took a deep breath, I realized in that moment that it was truly the greatest day ever.
I was able to drink coffee that morning with my wife and then go to work. I was able to watch my daughter swim and spend time with my in-laws at the event. I was able to eat supper that evening. I am in great health. I came home to a roof over my head. My wife and three kids were all at home that night. I was alive and breathing and truly taking it all in and appreciating the small things. I believed it. I really did. It was the greatest day ever.
“Yeah buddy, this is the best day ever.” His smile, as he looked me in the eyes, told me that he was glad I agreed.
Having a perspective that enjoys the present moment and lives it to the fullest has been a long and winding road for me. I am not saying that know how to do it perfectly at this point in my life. But today, I am thankful that God has used a variety of people and situations along the way to open my eyes and heart to the beauty of every moment.
Question
Take inventory this week of all the things in your life for which you can give thanks.
Peace,
Brandon
Count your blessing, name them one by one
When you look at others with their lands and gold,
Think that Christ has promised you His wealth untold.
Count your many blessings, money cannot buy
Your reward in heaven, nor your Lord on high.
The greatest wealth untold?
Your family and health